Wananga

 Today did a activity that trying to test our trust to each other other. We have to get into pairs so we can do this successfully, me and my friend decided to be in a partner. For this challenge we decided in our pair who is the person A and person B, but it doesn't really matter because we are both doing something.This challenge is really interesting because we have different instruction that we need to do, we also don't know our partner's instruction. We just have to trust them and complete the challenge. 

I am the person A and my instruction is I will not let my partner to open my fist until she ask me to open it politely and with assertiveness. It didn't take longer that I expected because she figure out what does she need to do. Also I don't have any doubt about her because we have been friends for quite a long time now, so I trust her. Trusting your partner is the important thing that you need to do for this challenge.

I know that all of us have made an argument with someone, it can be our family our friends. In our pair we also shared the moments that we did somethings in aggressive way but after we are gonna think that we should have been more assertive that aggressive. The experience that I told to my partner is every time that my sister asking a favor to me, and instead of following her I getting annoyed and sometimes being aggressive towards her. 

As a class we also talked about the things that we can do when someone is being aggressive towards us or someone says somethings that make us upset. Smiling, Ignoring, and take a deep breaths are just some of those things that we can do in this situation. It is important that we know how to manage this kind of things.